Yes you are able to find and attract men, but you might be making some very critical mistakes. These mistakes are the reason you keep attracting the wrong men, or cause the right man to lose interest in you and leave. If you are like most women I know, you've dreamed how wonderful your life would be, if you could share it with a loving, trustful and supportive partner who really loves you.
When we fall in love, we tend to see things in life better than they really are. We get so deep in love in the beginning that everything about that person seems sexier, smarter, funnier and more giving; he seems to be the right man. But eventually things start to go wrong. Love is no longer illuding you from the qualities your partner has that you can't bear, even things about him him you once admired now irritates you.You now realize your partner will not or cannot love and care for you as promised. Since he no longer gives you what you want willingly, you try to coerce him into caring through criticism, intimidation, shame, withdrawal, anger, crying - whatever seems to work. You fail to understand that you partner enters the relationship with his own expectations and before long that creates the core conflict.
But when you understand that you've chosen your partner to heal certain wounds, and that this healing is the key to the end of longing; you've taken the first step on the journey to real love with the right man. It is crucial to accept the truth that incompatibility is the norm for relationships. What holds you together is the ability to meet each other's desires, while building a bond that will strengthen the union; this will sustain you through difficult times.
You know he's the right man from the start of the relationship, when you just fell in love. That strong feeling of romantic love, though now not as strong, is the glue that initially bonds you so you can know what needs to be done to make each other happy.
Its always easy to think the guy you're with is the one until it doesn't work out, its difficult to know for sure if someone is the right one. The right one won't be perfect, but what sets him apart is the way he makes you feel and he's worth it - even if things don't work out. He won't manipulate your emotions just to get what he wants and is secure enough to let you be who you are.
Most women think that finding the right man will automatically lead to a wonderful relationship, but it will require commitment and lots of effort for both. The real truth is that the women who have wonderful relationships didn't necessarily know where to find good men, but they knew how to Attract them.
Its always easy to think the guy you're with is the one until it doesn't work out, its difficult to know for sure if someone is the right one. The right one won't be perfect, but what sets him apart is the way he makes you feel and he's worth it - even if things don't work out. He won't manipulate your emotions just to get what he wants and is secure enough to let you be who you are.
Most women think that finding the right man will automatically lead to a wonderful relationship, but it will require commitment and lots of effort for both. The real truth is that the women who have wonderful relationships didn't necessarily know where to find good men, but they knew how to Attract them.
An Open Letter To A Woman Who Wants To Find, Attract And Keep Mr. Right...
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