When you approach and flirt with women you are creating chemistry between you and her, building a captivating attraction without an agenda. Just let go of the need to get something from her or an outcome, don't give her a compliment so you can get something out of it. The fact that you don't need to get anything from her is the reason you will get something from her; strange but true. Flirting is so essential to men who want to be successful with women and its also, when done right, an enjoyable encounter that women love. But most men lack the confidence or don't know how to approach and flirt with women.
How To Approach Women
Many men find it difficult to approach women, mostly because they don't know what to say; they don't know how to just walk up to women at random and strike up a fun conversation. The solution to this challenge is to know how to approach and flirt with women, this removes the pressure of you just wanting something from her. Her initial opinion of you is not that of a needy man, instead you're seen by her as a confident man just having a playful teasing conversation.
You see an attractive woman, your first instinct as a man is to approach her with requests to go on a date with you or give you her phone number. Women don't just go on dates or give out phone numbers just because you ask, they do it because they want to see you again. You can accomplish this by flirting with her, she won't give you her number because you want it but because she wants you to have it.
You see an attractive woman, you want to go over but you don't know how or what to say to her. Women like to flirt and by flirting with her you remove the thought from her mind that you have an agenda or just trying to get at her. She will let her guard down when she realizes that you are just there having a fun conversation.
How To Flirt With Women
When you are flirting with women you have to keep the energy up, you can't bore a woman into being interested into you that will never work you have to be happy and excited. When you approach her your compliment should be something that is not obvious, do not tell her she is pretty or any other physical appearance comments. You can say something like:
"Hey! I was noticing you from across the room and i just want you to know you got this amazing energy about you, so radiant and incredible".
Then smile turn and walk away, she may stop you or she may not but whichever way you made a huge impact on her day. You may want to take it further so you can by saying:
Never ask her for anything, whatever you said to her in the beginning doesn't matter just make the transition into a normal conversation depending on your current situation. Whether a coffee shop, store wherever. You can do this by:"by the way my name is [your_name] put your hand out and introduce yourself".
"So you always come to this bookstore / do you like the coffee here or is it just the closest place to you"
Things like that, just use the situation you are in to make conversation and listen to her response and let it flow from there. Don't make the conversation to long though so you seem like you need too much, give the impression that you are about to walk away. This allows her to drop her guard because your not there to hit on her, which makes it feel less tense and more casual.
When you approach a woman and flirt with her you can't be all into her and kissing her ass, that's not how it works. You have to be playful: give her a compliment and then take it back, even for a short while. Say something nice to her and then say something playfully mean (not too mean just teasing), give her the impression you like her then no you don't like her then maybe you like her kinda feel.
What To Say To Her
What you say to a woman after you have approached her is not that important as to what you say after she has responded. She is really interested in your response to what she said, women are more into interactions - dynamic conversations. You can say just about anything to her and still get a good feedback from her, just leave the bragging out that almost never works and no interview questions.
You must leave on a high note just when you're both laughing or smiling having a good time, at the point where when you leave she will be thinking to herself: "this was fun i wish we could talk some more". Just say "well this was fun i have to get going" and turn and start to walk away. At that point she will be thinking to herself and if she hasn't stopped you and given you her number, you can always stop and turn around and say
"you know what this was fun i'd really like to talk to you some more let me give you my number"
Or you can also say I really have to go meet up with some friends. The worst that can happen is she is already in a relationship and she will let you know, but the good thing is she didn't reject you.
How To Be A Master At Approaching And Flirting With Any Woman
Building Confidence: If you are still a bit timid you can just go up to a woman compliment her on something (not physical appearance) and then just walk away. Without even waiting on her to respond just give her the compliment turn around and walk away.
Fast Flirting: Its time to go a step further and stick around for the response and make your reply. Just flirt and have fun, don't try to get anything from her at this point. And never say too much always leave her wanting more.
Just make a habit of flirting with the women you encounter in your regular daily activities like your bank teller, store clerk, waitress whomever. the more women you talk to the more comfortable you will become and the better you will get. Women never gives a guy her number just because he wants it, give her a reason to want to give it t you.
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