What Men Should Understand About Women 0 Alpha Male, Understanding Women 7:09:00 PM Understanding Women Men in general have complained at some point that women are too complicated. But understanding women isn't as hard as it is made out to be, it's the approach used by men to understand women that makes it difficult. What men should understand about women is that you can't. Overtime you will get to know exactly how women behave and you just have to accept it. But will you ever understand why women behave the way they do, or do you really need to? Although women are individually unique with their own personal feelings and tendencies. There are some dispositions that all women have in common. A "real man" should know these traits and integrate them, as beast as possible, into their lives. If its not possible then the issue is not about knowing what women want, its a matter of compatibility. If a man and a woman is not well-matched or suited for each other, simply knowing what she wants will not make the relationship work. Women are emotional and are driven by feelings, men tend to be driven more by sight or what he feels. Be mindful of that when interrelating with women, being sensitive to a woman's feelings, moods and emotions doesn't make you less of a man. Being a man should not be to a woman's expense, what makes a man different from a woman is what compliments the union between the two. What Men Need To Know About Women As a man you should try to understand the woman you are with, not every woman out there. Don't worry when a woman makes a fuss and argues with you, its a sign that she don't want to lose you. What you need to worry about is when she is silent, Its a sign she doesn't care anymore. Silence is a woman's loudest cry and then it will be too late. Men always say that: "Women don't say what they want". The truth is they actually do, just not at the exact time when they need it and when she did you probably weren't listening. Men have always complained that women are too complicated and are difficult to understand. But that is the first mistake and the reason behind this dilemma. When a man and a woman enters into a relationship it should be between the two. Its a relationship for two and not a gender centered involvement, forget about the mythical "battle of the sexes". As a man you should aspire to understanding your own woman, know your woman and don't try to grasp why a woman acts or behave the way she do. It is not important why a woman behaves in a particular way, that is irrelevant and fruitless. Just be mindful that she is that way and deal with it. Women can justifiably complain, because men have been negligent to the solution to this problem. What Women Expect From Men Women are undeniably complicated, but that should never be an excuse for not being able to understand them. Women like to talk and the key to understanding your woman is sprinkled all over what she talks about. But men at their own peril fail to listen, the very thing women complain about every day. Having said that, as a man "do you really want to understand your woman?" If yes, then listen to her. Most men after being with a woman for some time and after many fights and arguments begin to know what makes her happy, angry, her moods and annoyances. Knowing is good enough, the need to understand why is a useless luxury. In a woman's mind she shouldn't have to tell you what she needs from you or what she needs you to do, her view is as her man you should know. Anyone can make her smile or cry, she needs to know that you are that special someone that can make her smile even if there is tears in her eyes. Be Careful of These Words With Hidden Meanings Go Ahead - Is not a consent, its a dare. Fine - I’ll get back to this at a time when you have something important doing. Nothing - There is something wrong, but I shouldn't have to tell you. Wow - She can't believe how foolish you are, its not a compliment. It's OK - Only for now until she can figure out how to make you pay. Women are looking for a man who is: Ambitious Attentive Dependable Respectful Passionate A witty charmer Make sure you are well groomed with a proper hygiene, women pay close attention to these. The way you dress and carry yourself are closely scrutinized by women. She need you to be that man you were when you just met, that charming guy who listened and made her laugh. A man to fulfill her desires and dreams, with desires and dreams of his own. What Women Want In A Relationship A Woman Wants: To be appreciated A good listener To be measured as equals Flattery To be showered with affection A woman want to feel secure, knowing that she's all you want and knowing she's everything you need. She needs regular affirmations so don't assume that she knows how you feel, remind her. Don't wait until you do something wrong to do something special for her, this should be done regularly. Listening vs Hearing, Know The Difference Listen to her complaints, express your opinion about her distress in a sensitive manner and work out an amicable solution. Women always want to talk because you never listen, you should listen to her and try to understand her. Be that man who has made her bad days better, the one who makes her say "my life has changed positively since i met him" When she talks or even complains don't just hear the words that she's saying, also listen to the hidden message. Women don't usually speak "in so many words" what they want, you have to pay close attention to her. That's the reason women always stress that they need a man who listens. You can either rise to the occasion and be the man she needs or step aside so she can see the one you really needs her. Read This Later We want you to enjoy the best love life possible through useful editorial articles that is entertaining and adds value to your relationship. If its worth reading its worth sharing. Help LoveRubric to create better dating & relationships worldwide by sharing to following social networking sites below. What Men Should Understand About Women Understanding Women Men in general have complained at some point that women are too complicated. But understanding women isn... Read more »