Most men fear having to approach women, don't think this is unique to you. In fact, some men that are now able to confidently walk up to a woman and start conversations were also once afraid to do so. The difference is they overcame that fear and realized just how to approach women without fear of rejection.
Its not just the rejection that you and most other men fear, its more to do with the ways you can be rejected. But what you need to do is to get rid of those fables from your thoughts, the worst she can do is walk away from you or just outright ignore you.
If that should happen, guess what? It should not matter, that should not be a major concern. Just accept that she may have a valid reason for turning you down and move on to the next attractive woman.
Three Reasons Women Rejects Men
To overcome this fear of rejection phobia you need to familiarize yourself with a few of the reasons why women rejects men. What you should know is most of the time the rejection has nothing to do with you, its about her and her personal situation. She may have rejected you for an understandable reason like:
- She might be in a relationship
- She is recovering from a bad breakup
- She is having a bad day
The Art Of Approaching Women
You've seen it done before and with some degree of bitterness you think to yourself: " Why am i not able to do that". Why can't I approach random women and just start a conversation, or even the women that I am attracted to.
This is not unique to you, in fact many men struggle with this dilemma, even those men whom you envy for being able to approach women without fear. They too at one point had great difficulty, the only difference is that the learned how to overcome that fear and found out how simple this really is.
If you are determined to know the art of approaching women without any fear of rejection, you will need to exercise what is being communicated to you here.
How To Confidently Approach Women
This might come off as being superficial, but for most men fear is the source of all the problems encountered with this phase of their dating experience. Men are afraid to approach women, more so attractive women, because of what they think could go wrong which is being rejected.
It is possible for any man to approach and flirt with the woman who he is attracted to. All that is required is for him to overcome the fear of rejection, by exuding confidence you immediately attract women to yourself. Women are not overly particular about the way a man looks, your approach and the confidence you emit is an enormous influence on whether you get rejected or not.
It is possible for any man to approach and flirt with the woman who he is attracted to. All that is required is for him to overcome the fear of rejection, by exuding confidence you immediately attract women to yourself. Women are not overly particular about the way a man looks, your approach and the confidence you emit is an enormous influence on whether you get rejected or not.
CONSIDER THIS SCENARIO!
Joe has always been that guy that would walk up to random women without fear and start conversations with them. Some have rejected him for various reasons and some didn't. You, on the other hand, fear rejection so you don't approach women. You don't get rejected but you don't get a date either. Though Joe gets rejected he also gets dates, you get neither.
Would you rather no rejection no date or a few rejections and a few dates? I would choose the later.
As you can see, men that have no fear of rejection are more likely to increase their overall success with women. So if you can develop this personality, you will find that you can become better with women.
All you have to do is try to emanate confidence in all your interactions with women. When you are talking to women, simply concentrate on the conversation and work at getting rid of all negative thoughts. Just relax and enjoy the conversation.
So if you feel intimidated by women, you need to work on building your confidence and become comfortable with approaching hot women. If you see an attractive woman, then you should immediately approach her.
When you get into the habit of approaching all hot women you see, you're nervousness and fears will soon dissipate. You should remember though, that you won't be successful all the time, but you should still keep going.
Once you, on the regular, get into a rhythm of approaching women and initiating conversations with them, you will start to experience a dramatic increase in your success. Even if you're only able to pick up a woman once in awhile, you'll at least have more experience with your approach techniques. Also, you'll be closer towards eliminating your fear of rejection. Attracting and seducing hot women is possible. But if you let your fears and nervousness get in the way, you'll have very little chance at success.
All you have to do is practice your approach techniques and become more confident, then you would have mastered the art of attraction.
Joe has always been that guy that would walk up to random women without fear and start conversations with them. Some have rejected him for various reasons and some didn't. You, on the other hand, fear rejection so you don't approach women. You don't get rejected but you don't get a date either. Though Joe gets rejected he also gets dates, you get neither.
Would you rather no rejection no date or a few rejections and a few dates? I would choose the later.
As you can see, men that have no fear of rejection are more likely to increase their overall success with women. So if you can develop this personality, you will find that you can become better with women.
All you have to do is try to emanate confidence in all your interactions with women. When you are talking to women, simply concentrate on the conversation and work at getting rid of all negative thoughts. Just relax and enjoy the conversation.
So if you feel intimidated by women, you need to work on building your confidence and become comfortable with approaching hot women. If you see an attractive woman, then you should immediately approach her.
When you get into the habit of approaching all hot women you see, you're nervousness and fears will soon dissipate. You should remember though, that you won't be successful all the time, but you should still keep going.
Once you, on the regular, get into a rhythm of approaching women and initiating conversations with them, you will start to experience a dramatic increase in your success. Even if you're only able to pick up a woman once in awhile, you'll at least have more experience with your approach techniques. Also, you'll be closer towards eliminating your fear of rejection. Attracting and seducing hot women is possible. But if you let your fears and nervousness get in the way, you'll have very little chance at success.
All you have to do is practice your approach techniques and become more confident, then you would have mastered the art of attraction.
All You Need
You don't need fancy pickup lines like the ones you've seen work in movies. just be yourself, confidently walk up to her and say: "hi! my name is ... Interested Guy... and you are? At this moment you are not trying to be her man. just getting a date or a chance to talk some more now or at another time.
Don't be pushy just approach and flirt with her - have some fun. Although confidence is necessary, its not all it takes. Confidence does not automatically get you the woman, it gives you a chance at getting her.
Don't be pushy just approach and flirt with her - have some fun. Although confidence is necessary, its not all it takes. Confidence does not automatically get you the woman, it gives you a chance at getting her.
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