He Likes Me But He Has A Girlfriend.... Now What?

So often women fall in love with guys that are already taken, what is it about these men that attracts women. 

Women are flattered to know that a guy with a girlfriend likes her, it gives a feeling that you are more attractive or appealing than the other woman. You may not like him at first but after some effort it starts to seem that he's more into you than his girlfriend, eventually you start to fall for him. You can't help but start talking to yourself "why do I like this guy, he already has a girlfriend" or "he likes me but he has a girlfriend". 

No matter what you try to convince yourself, if you like him curiosity is going to get the better of you and soon the both of you are flirting with each other. You might even believe within yourself that its just a harmless philander and it will never get to the point of being romantic. What you didn't expect though is that all these sweet things he has been saying to you, the nice way in which he has been treating you, will one day win you over.

What A Guy With A Girlfriend Will Do To Convince You

He has already won your affection but you're still hesitant, you are having reservations about being with someone who already has a girlfriend. He knows that you like him and the only reason you are holding back his because of his girlfriend, so he tells you what he thinks you want to hear. He plays on your emotions by doing things that are small yet heartfelt and telling you things to make it seem justified, trying to convince you that its okay to be with him.:

1. Sending sweet text messages throughout the day and late nights, he tries to get you to flirt with him via text since he can't always talk. 
2. He endlessly ask you out on a secret date, he tells you he likes talking to you and enjoys spending time with you. He's giving you the impression that he's more interested in you.
3. Flirting and touching is what he frequently wants to do and this tends to bring people closer together, he will even try to kiss you; and nothing sparks passion and lust faster than a kiss. 
4. He will tell you how much he loves you more than his girlfriend, but he doesn't want to hurt her and he just needs some time to end it. Women tend to fall for that because he seems caring enough to consider her feelings. 

No matter what you want to believe, someone will end up getting hurt and in most cases that person will be you. The reason he has not left his girlfriend is not to spare her feelings, but because he doesn't want to lose her. That's why you know that he has a girlfriend and she don't know about you, doesn't the fact that he leaves you and go home to her hurt you; so why isn't he concerned about hurting you.

It could be that he does really like you and truly want to be with you, but is that a healthy way to start a relationship. The thing is: its impossible for a man to tell the woman he's in a relationship with that he is seeing someone else, hoping she might be ok with. But telling someone you just met that you have a girlfriend can allow him to keep both. 

What Women Must Consider Before Falling For A Man With A Girlfriend

• Can you be happy with a man who cheated on his girlfriend with you, will this lead to you being jealous and will you have confidence in him if or trust him if you do end up together. 
• If you are the type of person that hates commotions and problems then getting involved in this type of situation is not for you. 
• Are you prepared to deal with the hurt and heartache of playing second fiddle to a woman that the man you like or even love don't want to hurt. What about your feelings? Can you handle this kind of situation. 
• If you are the kind of woman who just want to have some fun, then this is the ideal situation for you. If not then its best not to get caught up in it, walk away and end all form of contact with this person.
• If you are the type of girl who doesn't mind being used then go ahead and be with him, but feelings have a way of showing up when least expected. Don't let this escalate beyond flirting and fun, you might just be the one who ends up getting hurt.

What you need to be aware of is that this could be one of two things, he's either just out to have some fun with you or he could possibly be interested in you. He could truly be attracted to you but not enough to be in a relationship with, if this is the case ask him to break it off before you both can be together. And don't be afraid to ask for proof that it is over.

You don't want to be labeled as the bitchy girl who tried to take a woman's boyfriend, never try to be the other woman. That is never a title you want to be recognized by, never fall for a guy with a girlfriend. Its better to be the rebound girl than the home wrecker.